Bride & Groom standing on the balcony, silhouetted by the beautiful window light behind them

Frequently Asked Questions

We get asked lots of questions about wedding photography. Here’s a few of the most popular ones…

What if it rains?

I love the quote “ Life’s not about avoiding the showers, its about learning to dance in the rain”.
Some of my favourite images were created in “bad’ weather, but obviously the final choice is down to you.
We always discuss with our couples a ‘Plan B’ 🙂

Bride & Groom standing under an umbrella - embracing the rain - outside Castle Bellingham

How long does it take to get my photos?

I love it when clients ask this question!
We aim to have a “sneak peak” of your photos to you within 7 days.
Just imagine lying up on honeymoon looking at your fabulous wedding photos!
The rest of your images will usually be ready for you to view with 14 days of your wedding.
When we chat with you before the wedding we can arrange when and how you can view them though we always recommend coming to our studio and viewing them with us if possible.
That way we can help you make your decisions for your album.

I don’t want much fuss. Is it worth getting a professional photographer?

Absolutely, especially if you don’t want too much fuss or time wasted because we won’t just take photos.
We’ll be there to help you at every stage of the day.
We’ll be helping with flowers, fixing your dress and even entertaining the kids.
I can’t think of anything worse than wasting time on your wedding day with an inexperienced or disorganised photographer.

Who will actually take my wedding photos?

There are two of us here, Simon and me (Ciaran).
When you enquire about your date we will tell you who is available so you can chat with them and see samples of their work.
If both of us are free you can choose.

"Life’s not about avoiding the showers, its about learning to dance in the rain."

— Ciaran O'Neill

How much should I expect to pay for a wedding photographer in Northern Ireland?

I read recently the average price for in Northern Ireland is around £1500.
We are slightly more than that but when you see our images and our stunning albums, I think you’ll see why.

How long will you be there on the day?

That’s up to you but typically we start at the bride’s house and stay until you are called for dinner, until after the speeches or for the first few dances.
We can tailor your package to suit your needs.

Lough Erne Resort - our lovely couple enjoy a stroll across the foot bridge over Lake Hume

Bride sitting in the window of Cabra Castle

Cabra Castle Weddings

Cabra Castle Weddings

Well known as one of Ireland’s best castle wedding venues, Cabra Castle Hotel boasts a proud history dating as far back as 1760.
Its long history lends a mature, cultured air to the castle which can be felt as you stroll along the castle’s magnificent hallways and stairwells.
Photo opportunities are plentiful. From the magnificent fountain at the front door, through Mitzi’s Garden and on to the elegant entrance staircase, you will be surrounded by beautiful backdrops.
Once inside you are greeted with the grand staircase leading to a host of beautiful rooms on the first floor. These rooms are ideal for quiet bridal portraits and even larger family and friend group shots. It seems that every corner hides another opportunity.
The friendly staff are alway on hand to help and your food will be second to non.
As wedding photographers covering all of Ireland we consider Cabra Castle Hotel to be one of our closer venues at only 80 minutes drive away.
Come join us for our lowdown on Cabra Castle Weddings…

Bride & Groom standing embracing in front of the Cabra Castle main entrance
The front of the Castle is truly iconic

The Hotel & Grounds

Where to start with such a beautiful castle? Arriving at the main entrance – you are just blown away by the surroundings. The grounds are immaculate and staff are incredibly attentive towards our couples. Sometimes, it works out that we need to get the ‘Castle’ shot straight out of the car, in this case the Piper holds off until the couple are ready. Inside, the drinks reception provides for a fantastic atmosphere. Whilst the guests are enjoying the drinks and canapés – we normally take our bridal party away for 10-15 minutes to use Mitsy’s Garden, or if the weather is struggling to control its temper – we use the main castle staircase and Gold room.

Bridal party in Mitzi's garden
Bridal party in Mitzi's garden
Bridal party in gold room
Bridal party on stairs in the main Castle
Bridal party on stairs in the main Castle

When using the gardens we try and move as quickly as possible. This is to minimise the time you’re away from your guests! Whilst Cabra Castle feels huge – to travel between locations is actually quite quick and accessible for brides (and grooms) in heels!

Bride and groom in courtyard garden at Cabra Castle hotel
Bride and groom in courtyard garden
Oscar the Irish wolf hound from Cabra Castle
Humans Beware! Oscar can easily steal the limelight from our newlyweds lol!
Piper leading bride and groom Cabra Castle
Piper leading bride and groom up the stairway to Cabra Castle

"Cabra are constantly updating their style - the new alcove for cutting the cake illuminates our couples"

— Ciaran O'Neill Photography

The Gold Room

The great JRR Tolkien once wrote: “All that is gold does not glitter.” This time, however, is not the case. One of the finest decorated rooms I’ve ever witnessed (it still beguiles me every time I go to Cabra) is the Gold Room at Cabra Castle.

Over the years, it has always been a sanctuary for our couples – either a bit of respite from the onslaught of well-wishers, or providing a stunning backdrop to family photos. Cabra recently upped their game and use it as a landing place for the bridal party to enjoy a bit of downtime with nibbles and drinks.

Bride sitting in window with reflection in glass table Cabra Castle Ciaran O'Neill Photography
Ok, ok. Technically its not the Gold Room - but the room faces the Gold Room and is stunning in its own right :-)

The Bridal Suite

The two bridal suites Cabra offer are equally stunning – however we tend to use the castle room as it lends itself more to photos. From the four posted bed to the Victorian style bathtub – photos and opportunities abound!

Bride with flowergirl in window Cabra Castle Wedding Ciaran O'Neill Photography
The staircase just beside the bridal suite makes for a beautiful walking photo

"All that glitters IS Gold!"

— Ciaran O'Neill Photography

The Staircase

Is there a more dramatic staircase in Ireland? Perhaps…but this one has to be one of our favourites. So many opportunities present themselves from so many different angles.

Bride lit from behind on stairs in Cabra Castle
Naturally lit from the window light behind the bride
Off camera flash provides the light in this image - which was taken at night in Winter time
Bride and daughter going to bed Cabra Castle Ciaran O'Neill Photography Northern Ireland Wedding Photographers
Bride & her daughter walk up the steps hand in hand

Civil Ceremonies & Evening Time

We’ve been lucky to capture civil ceremonies inside and outside of the castle. These are very intimate ceremonies and allow us as photographers to blend in with the guests and surroundings as we capture those special moments.

Bride and groom kiss during an intimate ceremony at Cabra Castle
A couple 'tie the knot' during a hand fasting ceremony outside of the Castle
Irish wolf hound walks through ceremony at Cabra Castle
We are not kidding about Oscar stealing the show!

The Gate house at the entrance of the Castle is an amazing space for hosting your bridal prep.

Bridal party laughing and drinking champagne on the morning of the wedding

Night Time

Bride and groom at Christmas tree Cabra Castle
Bride and groom in front of Cabra night-time
Bride and groom kissing in front of fireworks Cabra Castle Wedding Photographer Northern Ireland Ciaran O'Neill Photography
First dance Cabra Castle
Bride and groom leaving hotel under sparklers held my guests Cabra Castle
Bride and groom in gazebo at night Cabra Castle Ireland
Bride and groom in front of gazebo Cabra Castle hotel at night

Sports Car Photoshoot - Mourne Mountains

Maserati 3200GT Vs Porsche Cayman

Photoshoot for sports car owners in the spectacular Mourne Mountains


Birde and groom standing outside Killeavy Castle with her veil flowing in the wind

Killeavy Castle Weddings

Killeavy Castle Weddings

As the centrepiece of a 350 acre estate and woodland in County Armagh’s stunning Slieve Gullion, Killeavy Castle is one of Ireland’s “newest” castle wedding venues. The recently renovated castle provides intimate surroundings while the newly built hotel area gives a thoroughly modern feel. It is truly the best of both worlds.
The wonderful staff are always on hand. Of all the magical areas in the grounds, one of my personal favourites is the tunnel from the old area to the new. It is always bathed in beautiful flattering light from the garden. Its always a winning shot for our brides too.
Lying only a few miles off the Belfast – Dublin main road, Killeavy Castle are within easy rest of most of Northern and Southern Ireland.
Continue reading for our lowdown on Killeavy Castle weddings…

Couple outside Killeavy Castle

The Hotel & Grounds

Killeavy’s grounds are extremely well kept and get better every time we have the privilege of shooting there. The different seasons offer different photo opportunities – Autumn in particular provides a wealth of orange and red tones with the forest area just behind the car park. Our advice, go walking in the forest for some beautiful images…

Couple enjoying a laugh as they stroll through the forest
Couple enjoy a stroll along the lane at Killeavy Castle
The tones brought out in Autumn are stunning

We mentioned the Archway and tunnel earlier – it was originally used to transport food and drink into the main Castle. No matter the weather it is accessible – so if it is raining outside you can get into the tunnel and capture some stunning photos without getting soaked!

This is one of the entrances to the tunnel
Light flows in from three entry points - creating atmospheric and moody visuals.
Couple embrace in a tunnel under Killeavy Castle
Autumn tones surround our a beautiful bride as she stands outside a tunnel
Grooms standing in an archway during a Killeavy Castle wedding
Bride stands in the archway at Killeavy Castle

"Slieve Gullion forest is a small walk away - it provides a stunning backdrop for wedding photos"

— Ciaran O'Neill Photography

Gardens & Outdoor Opportunities

The Walled Gardens are getting better and better each time we visit. The pebbled walkways are clean and absorb water quickly, meaning if you get a break in the rain. you can use them shortly after without getting your dress dirty or soaked.

Bridal party in the Walled Gardens

"Weddings in Killeavy are a mix of moments - romantic, peaceful, majestic - it is truly a place of your own"

— Ciaran O'Neill Photography

Photo Opportunities Further Afield

Main Hotel & Marquee

Civil ceremonies in the marquee are private and personal – allowing you and your guests the opportunity to enjoy a full day at the Castle without the intermediate travelling. The main hotel is modern and spacious.


The Castle & Bridal Suite


Night time


Bride fixing her shoe in the bridal suite at Darver Castle

Darver Castle Weddings

Darver Castle Weddings

One of Ireland’s best wedding castle venues Darver Castle is situated on 50 acres of fine parkland and wooded grounds in the rolling countryside of County Louth. A beautiful private estate steeped with history and romance. The Irish Castle has been lovingly restored by the Carville family, who continue to care for it.
On arrival you’ll be greeted by the staff and almost always Mary, one of the owners. Their amazing personal service starts here and lasts throughout your day.
Darver castle’s ceremony room is one of the most beautiful we’ve worked in and is sure to wow your guests.
The extensive gardens are full of photo opportunities – not least my personal favourite, their old stone archway.
Inside is equally as beautiful with every nook and cranny offering endless creative opportunities.
One of the unique features of a Darver Castle Wedding is that it is purely a wedding venue so you’ll have the entire property and estate to yourself.
Less than an hours drive from home for us so we consider Darver Castle to be one of our “local” castle wedding venues.
Continue reading for our lowdown on Darver Castle Weddings…

Bride sitting in the bridal suite looking out the window

The Castle & Grounds

In the 15 years we have been shooting at Darver, they have never sat still and rested on their laurels (and we are not just talking about the plant!). They constantly update their interior design and their gardens to provide their guests with an amazing experience. When the weather is good (and sometimes bad!) we try and use every inch of the gardens – finding new and exciting shots every time we shoot there. It is all within walkable distance – meaning in a short period of time we can have stunning photos taken and have you back drinking bubbly (non-alcoholic options available) with your guests in no time!

Bridal party walking with linked arms at Darver Castle
Bride and bridesmaids laughing outside Darver Castle
Bride and groom in long grass in front of Darver Castle
Bride and groom in wooden archway in B&W Darver Castle
Couple kissing whilst standing on a bridge over a pond at a Darver Castle wedding
bride and groom with vintage style cars outside Darver Castle
The extensive restoration work on the Castle was meticulous and returned the castle to its former glories.
Bride leads groom towards Darver Castle Wedding
Bride pushing through iron gate at Darver Castle

Whilst keeping with the traditions of the castle – the interior is very stylish and current. There are so many different little areas to produce photos – so should your day be rained out entirely there is no need to worry.

Bride in corner lit from behind Darver Castle
Bride and groom in front of window Darver Castle
The cottage in the courtyard can host civil ceremonies and is beautiful for photos
Groom looking out the window
Reflection of bride in mirror
bride and groom in ceremony room with flowers and chandeliers

"One of the unique features of Darver Castle is that it is purely a wedding venue so you’ll have the entire property and estate to yourself."

— Ciaran O'Neill Photography

Civil Ceremonies

The courtyard has hosted many a civil ceremony – these are always intimate and personal. I’m not sure why – but the emotion seems to be heightened at these ceremonies. I’ve been close to tears myself lol! Natural daylight floods through the quaint windows – making it easy for candid photos of the guests and our couples alike. This enables us to blend into the background and capture those special moments without being intrusive.

Bride & Groom kiss after completing their marriage vows in Darver Castle
Bride & Groom kiss after completing their marriage vows in Darver Castle
groom and groomsmen wait outside ceremony room
bride and party walk to ceremony room
groom gets emotional as bride walks up aisle Darver Castle Wedding
Heightened emotions!!
The guests applauding after the wedding service
groom and men arrive at Darver Castle
groom waits at top of aisle Darver Castle
Bride in ceremony room lit from behind

The Corn Field

So often at wedding venues we look for photo locations further afield in search of something different for our clients. With Darver this has never been necessary – the gardens and interior are so varied that we never recommend taking our couples and bridal party anywhere else. However, at a certain time of year (July/August normally) – one such opportunity arises and it doesn’t even have to take you off the beaten track. Not far from the Castle lie a couple of stunning cornfields. We even know the best place to park to capture some stunning images (as below). Just be ready to run in case the farmer catches us!! 🤣

The cornfields outside Darver
The cornfields outside Darver

"The arch at Darver Castle is one our favourite features to photography at."

— Ciaran O'Neill Photography

bride and groom walking at sunset Darver Castle Wedding
Groom holds swing for bride at Darver Castle
groom and men walking and laughing in black and white

Night Time

bride and groom at sunset with Darver Castle

When the sun sets over the Louth horizon, it would be easy to think that no more photo opportunities could arise. But in actual fact, a whole new range of dramatic and contemporary prospects present themselves. Fear not the dark – embrace it! 🙂

Sunsetting behind our bride and groom at Darver Castle
bride and groom under stone arch with sun setting
bride and groom at night under archway Darver Castle
bride and groom kissing at front door Darver Castle wedding Ireland Wedding Photographers Ciaran O'Neill Photography
Christmas time at Darver - Magical!
Bride standing outside Castle in darkness at Christmas time

Bride and groom embracing after dark out side Darver castle with chridtmas lights in background

Darver Castle Wedding - Eileen & Darryl

Our Wedding Journey...

Eileen McConnell, an accountant technician and Darryl Lipscombe, a contracts manager, both from Virgina, Co. Cavan got married in St. Matthews church, Maghera, Co.Cavan. They had the reception in the stunning Darver Castle.

How did you first meet and get together?

Funny story actually, we are next door neighbours my home house is to the right at the cross roads and Darryl’s home house is to the left. My brother and sister would know Darryl’s younger brother Keith but we didn’t know Keith had older brothers. We met on tinder January 2019 and had our first date 27th January after two weeks of texting.

Head and shoulders photo of bride with beautiful red lipstick

Tell us about the proposal – where, when, how?

We had planed to go to Vietnam in the summer of 2020 but unfortunately with covid we had to postponed this trip. We had booked to go Gran Carinaria in July 2020 but a few days before our trip the government announced that Spain wasn’t on the green list. Darryl noticed that Italy was so he suggested we go to Venice. I was a bit unsure but as he told me it’s on the green list so its safe to go. It was the third day on our trip the Venice and Darryl had booked us a tour to go a gondola. I should have noticed that something was going on as he was acting funny and he was nervous, half way through the boat trip he got up and down on one knee and proposed to me. I was in complete and utter shock!

Bride and bridesmaids getting ready and celebrating with champagne

" Ciaran was so patient and we never felt rushed, he was also super quick with taking photos that we had time to go around and talk to people "

— Eileen & Darryl

The Wedding Planning...

Where and how did you choose your dress?

I found my dress in My Fairlady in Monaghan. I was just having a scroll through Instagram and I noticed there page.

Groom tying his bow tie in the mirror
Bridesmaid helping the bride get ready beside a large window

How did you find the experience?

I liked the style of dresses they had to offer so I book in for appointment just to see how things looked. I thought the dress process was going to be horrible but it was completely the opposite. When I went in December 2020 to my appointment Cera was lovely she sat down with me first of all and just spoke about what I think I would like and what I think would suit my figure. She listen to me, I told her I didn’t want a ballgown dress as it would kick out too much on me. She asked me to try one on first just so she could see and she knew exactly what I was saying. As I was trying on dresses she knew what styles would suit figure so was so patient and honest and what I loved the most she wasn’t pushy. They dress I actually said yes to that day I had a screen shot of it on my phone.

Father walks his daughter down the aisle of a large church
The groom kisses the bride at the top of the aisle

What was the best part of planning your big day?

I love that fact that every decision that was made me and Darryl sat down together and planned it. It was difficult planning a wedding during covid as we couldn’t visit venues and go see the bands live. We were really looking forward to having nights out and getting a feel of the bands but it ended up being hours on YouTube searching for live performance’s so we could get a feel of the band. We never got to see our band until the wedding day and to be honest all the hours scrolling definitely played off The Vinyl’s were amazing, exactly what we wanted.

And the most stressful part?

The table plan!!! You think you have it sorted and then one person drops out and you have to rethink some people and having no kids at the reception apart from immediate family.

The bride alone in the church with light shinning through her dress

" We like the fact the photos are natural "

— Eileen & Darryl

The Wedding Day...

Bride and groom in dark romantic church
Bride standing in front of old stone wall facing away from the camera with light shining through the dress

How did the day go?

Absolutely amazing, everything was just perfect. The whole day went far too quick. We can’t wait to see the photos and the video to relive it all again. The day just disappeared.

Bride and groom standing on a country style bridge with water in the foreground

Why did you book us as your photographers?

We loved your Instagram page, how all couples looked natural, how the background and setting were used in photos that really stand out. We loved the off the cuff photos of people so really looking forward to seeing all the photos.

bride and groom standing in a wooden church style archway in a garden

Our Favourites...

Were there any particular photos you loved (or hated!) getting taken?

I loved seeing to ones of Darryl getting ready. I wasn’t too sure on the one Ciaran took of me as I got a bit overwhelmed and started crying when I see the finish look, but looking at it now is fab, very raw. We love the couple ones and the different lighting, We like the fact the photos are natural and that we are not made to overly pose or keep smiling at Ciaran. Everything felt natural.

Bride and groom with bridal party in Darver Castle Ireland
The groom looking at his new wife while making his speech

Do you think we, as your photographers, helped you enjoy your day?

Omg 100 percent, Ciaran was amazing from start to finish. He was so patient and we never felt rushed, he was also super quick with taking photos that we had time to go around and talk to people without being pulled aside for a long peirod of time. For the photos at the Darver I never had to look for my bouquet, he had them in his hand ready to go. He was just on the ball.

nighttime photo of bride and groom lit with fairy lights on an archway

Were there any near disasters/funny incidents?

One of the bridesmaids dropped a sparkler on my dress, she grabbed it quick enough! I wish I knew to get my bridesmaids to tie up my dress for the first dance, it was hard to dance in it as it was getting caught around my ankles and Darryl was standing on it. Both of us were muttering to each other on the dance floor.

silhouette of bride and groom in front of a floral arch lit with fairy light outside an irish castle

What advice would you give to other couples planning their wedding?

Enjoy every second of your planning, make sure you keep in mind that it is about you two as a couple celebrating your love and not about anybody else.

bride and groom dancing
Bride and groom under an arch after dark lit from behind

" Absolutely amazing, everything was just perfect.> "

- Eileen & Darryl